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Real Intelligence in a Digital Era
I was the last generation to grow up with very basic technology. Second generation mobile devices were in existence when I was a child but they did very little and not everyone saw the need to own one.
We had dial up internet with a modem that would ring out the tune of connecting to the world wide web with a volume that only Bose surround sound could match. I have funny memories of trying to connect late at night to chat with my friends after my parents said not to get online and throwing my body over the modem so that it wouldn't be heard. I remember when we had to page my dad while he was at work if we wanted to contact him personally. And when I became a teenager and "dumb phones" hit the scene I thought this new fangled SMS system was called Tex messages, instead of text messages. My mother used to warn us constantly about using the internet and the stranger danger that could come from it. There was so much precaution taken at that time when technology was growing in ways we had never imagined. Now look at us! I can't click on one pair of shoes without getting ads for more!
I am a part of the last generation that actually remembers what it is like to not have instantaneous connection to whatever show I want to watch, music I want to hear, or people I want to talk to. I remember life without having a computer or cell phones in the house, ghastly! Actually, can we just go back to that?
Need for Human Connection
The real intelligence of life before this digital era was in the face-to-face communication and interactions. We knew our neighbors, we actually saw our friends, we talked to our loved ones on the house phone, and we visited each other more. Real human connection was not replaced with inhuman messages and profiles. And we need those real human connections to see facial expressions, hear tone, sense the environment, and feel the emotions of others. Our social engagement system was actually able to grow and properly develop as it should for us to feel we are truly connected and safe in this world. It's no surprise that mental health issues are at an all-time high; we are living in ways that are more disconnected and unnatural than ever before.
When I think back on some of the most connected, celebratory, and human times of my life one of the first things that come to mind are our block parties. These traditional block parties stood as a vital reminder of the importance of community. These gatherings, once a staple of neighborhood life, served as a bridge connecting us to our local communities, fostering relationships, and celebrating the seasons with those who lived closest to us. I've talked to many friends and followers who remember this from years past but now sadly lament that they don't even know their neighbors. I think it's time to revive them and before giving you some practical tips for planning a block party, I want to share why I think they are essential to the life of a local community.
The Importance of Block Parties
1. Fostering Community Connection:
Block parties provide a unique opportunity to connect with neighbors in a relaxed and informal environment. They break down barriers and encourage conversations that might not happen otherwise, turning strangers into friends and acquaintances into close-knit community members. These events remind us that we are not alone; we are part of a larger, supportive network.
2. Celebrating the Seasons Together:
Seasonal celebrations, whether it's a summer barbecue, a fall festival, or a winter holiday gathering, mark the passage of time and give us reasons to come together. These events help us appreciate the changing seasons and the beauty they bring, creating shared memories and traditions that strengthen community bonds.
3. Enhancing Safety and Security:
Knowing your neighbors can significantly enhance the safety and security of your neighborhood. Block parties encourage residents to look out for one another, fostering a sense of collective responsibility. When you know your neighbors, you’re more likely to notice and respond to unusual activities, making the community safer for everyone. I'm lucky to have neighbors that let me know if the garage is open or if I left the trunk of the car up after carrying in a load of groceries.
4. Boosting Mental and Spiritual Well-Being:
Social connections are crucial for mental health. Block parties offer a chance to unwind, socialize, and build supportive relationships, contributing to better mental and spiritual well-being. They provide a break from the stresses of daily life and a chance to enjoy simple pleasures with others.
Practical Steps to Plan a Block Party
Introduce Yourself to Your Neighbors: Some of you may already know your neighbors, but many of you don't. Before getting started this might be a good time to knock on their door, introduce yourself, and maybe drop off a plate or little bag of cookies. Share that you'd like to have a block party and see what their interest is.
Get the Necessary Permits: Check with your local government about any permits required for hosting a block party. This may include street closure permits, noise ordinances, and other regulations. Starting this process early ensures you have everything in place for a smooth event. You might not need this, but it's a good step to take!
Form a Planning Group: Gather a group of enthusiastic neighbors to help with the planning. Assign roles such as coordinating food, entertainment, decorations, and activities. A collaborative effort lightens the load and ensures a more diverse and inclusive event.
Set a Date and Time: Choose a date and time that works for most residents. Weekends are typically best, and consider scheduling it during a time when people are likely to be home, such as late afternoon or early evening.
Spread the Word: Promote the event through flyers, social media, and word of mouth. Ensure everyone in the neighborhood is aware of the event and feels welcome to attend. Personal invitations can be particularly effective in encouraging participation.
Plan Food and Drinks: Organize a potluck-style meal where everyone brings a dish to share. This not only eases the burden on any one person but also allows for a diverse spread of food. Provide non-alcoholic beverages and consider a designated area for those who wish to bring alcoholic drinks.
Organize Activities and Entertainment: Plan a variety of activities to keep everyone entertained. This could include games for children, live music, a talent show, or even a movie screening. Activities help break the ice and keep the energy high throughout the event.
Create a Comfortable Environment: Set up tables and chairs, provide shade with tents or umbrellas, and decorate the area to create a festive atmosphere. Make sure there are enough trash and recycling bins to keep the area clean.
Encourage Interaction: Facilitate introductions and encourage neighbors to mingle. Name tags, icebreaker games, and group activities can help people get to know each other better.
Consider Safety and Accessibility: Ensure the event is safe and accessible for everyone. This includes having a first aid kit on hand, providing clear signage for restrooms, and considering the needs of those with mobility issues.
Follow Up: After the event, thank everyone for their participation and gather feedback. Discuss what worked well and what could be improved for future block parties. Keep the momentum going by planning regular community events.
By embracing the tradition of block parties, we not only celebrate the seasons but also strengthen the relationships of our immediate communities. These gatherings remind us of the power of human connection and the joy of coming together with friends, family, and neighbors.
So, let’s keep the spirit of block parties alive and thriving!
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